As promised I am writing in response to some of you who have questions about how to think and how I feel (especially at that Ilaria was the first to explicitly ask, hello). I choose an hour late for my day off (you'll see now are so used to the night that I almost fall asleep more ....).
I state that in my opinion, and not limited to, three things are different, and it is obvious, but not interchangeable or can be united, at least as I understand it. It should also be added, however, that not everyone thinks the same way and that probably things change also according to sex (so close any margin of error, of course you are perfectly free to say your comments, especially if you think differently from me, ok?)
So we begin with the last, masturbation.
By this I mean the self-induced act and not shared in any way with other people, neither physically nor visually as it happens .... sometimes.
The act is usually designed so relaxing (I say usually because sometimes it can be very hectic and very quiet, depending on what you want to try and how it sets about it).
In this case, I think, a desire expressed in a pleasant as it approaches possible to reality, but only from our point of view, with our time and our expectations that is not said that then they can respond to a reality (in fact almost never the case. For this I mean masturbation as a free gesture that just its differences from any other emotion, can, and indeed is usually practiced often, even if it's half a loving relationship as a couple, but not a relationship of sex. At least I, from my point of view, male, I see it.
I state that in my opinion, and not limited to, three things are different, and it is obvious, but not interchangeable or can be united, at least as I understand it. It should also be added, however, that not everyone thinks the same way and that probably things change also according to sex (so close any margin of error, of course you are perfectly free to say your comments, especially if you think differently from me, ok?)
So we begin with the last, masturbation.
By this I mean the self-induced act and not shared in any way with other people, neither physically nor visually as it happens .... sometimes.
The act is usually designed so relaxing (I say usually because sometimes it can be very hectic and very quiet, depending on what you want to try and how it sets about it).
In this case, I think, a desire expressed in a pleasant as it approaches possible to reality, but only from our point of view, with our time and our expectations that is not said that then they can respond to a reality (in fact almost never the case. For this I mean masturbation as a free gesture that just its differences from any other emotion, can, and indeed is usually practiced often, even if it's half a loving relationship as a couple, but not a relationship of sex. At least I, from my point of view, male, I see it.
masturbation, in addition to investing the physical sensations, also includes the mental, and this makes complete and approachable (Just joined) to both other practices. The fantasy, in fact, allows us to interchange from time to time not only the object of our attention, but also how to approach it, if you know what I mean. I could bring dozens, if not more, ways and time for this practice, but I really dwell too much, and instead want to be short and concise ...
Love.
For love I mean the loving relationship and not just the physical sense, which still falls in the first.
This term, therefore, I'm going to show what I think is involved in the mental and physical, usually more mental. The level of diversity of thought in relation to mental amsturbazione or sex is great but most can be layered. Let me explain with an example: some (male), almost all require themselves to provide a higher level, although often there would be no need because the partners do not always love it or need it appreciating. Usually when you do not need the love of physical stimuli or other more to the relationship itself (remember that I express my opinions, not v'infuriate if you're like me), then in a few words is fine to do it dark, because the image of the beloved we have in mind, but in the confusion of emotions and feelings we do not even need, and the pleasure experienced an orgasm is usually beyond the mere physicality, rather too often not even feel the purely physical side, in that it is muted and mixed with many other feelings and therefore different from what may be a feeling of masturbation (even if sometimes the second one can approach the first in virtue use varied that one can do, as I said before).
Sex.
Having sex with another person is another thing. The sex involves so complex that you can not talk face singolrmente without the risk of becoming boring and verbose, but suffice it to say that sex encompasses so many ways (more love), because sex is experienced in more than a loving relationship of couples , and the fantasy staff widens and is completed with the other person or the other. The limit is much moved over to make love, and also with respect to masturbate, because, as I said before, more people interact, and each door in turn your desire and your imagination.
said this seems to have sex do not necessarily mean more people, simultaneously or individually. Not so in reality As this is can have sex even with your loving partner, although in this case opening speeches that affect, I think, on the report, and then changing it in some way.
However, leaving aside this branch that can go a long way, I try to stay on and add that the sex ratio, both before and during the mental part is involved and how. It is not true, in fact, as they say around, that having sex with a person is only a physical relationship and nothing else. The involvement of mind there, and I think it is obvious, otherwise there would be no attraction, and if there's attraction, at least for the male, there is little to do ....
What changes is the emotional approach to the relationship.
Usually, in fact, a relationship without being pretentious (this is a truth is indeed contradictory, since the loving partner In theory we do not have to prove anything because he loves us and will continue to do so even if they do not show the stallions, which is in a relationship instead of sex, in theory, has more, but the reality of the practice behaves in an opposite way) . The timing of sex is experienced as it is without restrictions or restraints.
Of course, we said that the mental state is present, but it is different from the other cases, if the report because it fills us with love and passion involves us in distorting the overall relationship in the dark, and if the masturbation fantasy instead focuses what we do or say or hear during sex fantasy becomes reality and we will leave go to new things and new ideas. Sex usually needs to visual stimuli and / or hearing, during sex it does not matter if the other person in relation to themselves and therefore we make expectations, but are those designed in masturbation as well as others, for this the two, as I said before, do not usually go hand in hand.
This is not to say that if he wants to have a relationship with the light on means you do not love you or if it offers things other than just a weird position or relationship or otherwise, does not respect you. Let's say you're only trying to implement his masturbatory fantasy that could only materialize in a sexual relationship because of what love is saturated. So do not let me fight with your kids eh?
said that I will stop here, then continue to talk in the comments because of things and adds there were too many and not the more you end. (Among other things, is also being me sleep, despite the topic, and took the opportunity to go to bed). Final observation, I wanted to put photos: I had selected some very nice nude art, but eventually I gave up for not having problems, I do not want any rod that passes around here think it's a blog porn or something.
